LIVE UNAPOLOGETICALLY
OUT LOUD
Radically inclusive coming out and confidence coaching for LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and folks ready to choose aligned love and life.
PART COACH - PART COMPASS
Hi! I’m Ray (they/them), your Confidence Coming Out Coach.
Part coach, part compass. I’m Ray (they/them), a Confidence Coming Out Coach. My mission is simple: I help LGBTQ+ and polyamorous people reveal their confidence and remember their authentic selves , by modeling how to find and align with their inner compass.
My approach blends lived queer/poly experience with embodied, evidence-informed tools. I specialize in Integrated Attachment Style awareness, Somatic Agreement/Consent Practices, and Nonviolent Communication skills. You’ll feel safe, seen, and sovereign as we co-create new patterns: regulating your nervous system, reframing self-talk, and practicing consent-based communication.
WORK WITH ME
From individual coaching to teams and large audiences, Ray fosters spaces where people can exhale and belong.
With a steady pace, clear boundaries, and consent-centered practice, confidence becomes something you can rely on - in your life, your teams, and your events.
ON THE BLOG
IN THEIR OWN WORDS
Ray expands horizons by opening minds and hearts. Anyone who encounters Ray as a coach is left a better person
Catherine M Essik -
Whistle Pig Mountain
Lawn Care & Landscaping
Working with Ray has given me tools to move forward and realization that I am not alone; there is someone there whenever I need positive support, guidance or just a gentle kick in the bum.
Anna Murfin - Artist
Ray is one of the most authentic, self-aware and genuine people ... Always easy to talk to, Ray offers fresh perspective, guidance, original insight and wisdom acquired from a myriad of life experiences.
Lisa Salerno - Artist
