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The World is Waiting

             for you to

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 COME OUT

 with Your Authentic Self                     

1-1 Coaching!

We desperately
need your unique view

RIGHT NOW!

You will feel
Confident
in Yourself to...

  • Reveal and reclaim your authentic identity

  • Break people-pleasing and self-abandonment

  • Communicate clearly and courageously

  • End generational push-pull relationship cycles

  • Regulate emotions and restore balance

  • Build truth-based, aligned relationships

  • Hold empathy & power confidently even during conflict 

  • Set boundaries and collaborate on negotiables

What is a COMING OUT Coach?

I help people come out—not just in terms of identity, but as their full, authentic selves. Through my signature Coming Out Process, I guide individuals through the deeply personal work of showing up with confidence, clarity, and compassion—even when it challenges everything they were taught to believe was “okay.”

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This process is for you whether you’ve already officially come out as LGBTQ+, polyamorous, or are still figuring things out. Because coming out isn’t a one-time event—it’s a lifelong practice of choosing authentic love and connection, even when it’s hard.

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Born from my own experience coming out as nonbinary, polyamorous, and pansexual, this work is grounded in tools that create real, embodied transformation. I bring together Integrated Attachment Theory, Consent Education, Nonviolent Communication, Fine Arts, Dance, Yoga, and Meditation to support you in building relationships that are rooted in truth and trust—not trauma.

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This program helps you:

  • Break the generational cycle of miscommunication and trauma bonding

  • Restore relationships without abandoning yourself

  • Protect your energy with clear, heartfelt language

  • End the cycle of constant conflict and codependent connection

  • Cultivate secure, nourishing love—on your terms

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If you’re ready to stop apologizing for who you are and start building a life of embodied confidence and mutual respect, I’m here to walk with you. You don’t have to do this alone.

Testimonials

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"Ray is one of the most authentic, self-aware and genuine people I know.  Always easy to talk to, Ray offers fresh perspective, guidance, original insight and wisdom acquired from a myriad of life experiences."

Lisa Salerno, Artist

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